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Afghani Women

So this is a tad unlike my normal posts of ranting and raving at nonsense first world problems..
This post may disturb some people and if you don’t care to read it, I’d stop here.

I’ve been watching this documentary about this 21yr old Afghanistan woman named Nel, who currently lives in England because her mother and father moved there illegally when she was 6.
She travels back to Afghanistan to get back to her roots and try and understand where she came from.
There’s of coarse, the “respect” issue, where women have to wear the ‘Burka’ all the time as to not show themselves to men, if they were to wear loose pants or not be completely covered they would be beaten in the streets.
The culture there makes you believe that if you are a woman and you show your face to a man, it’s disrespectul and disgusting.
It makes you want to cover yourself up, because you don’t want to be disgusting.
Attention from men in Afghanistan is not wanted, you don’t choose your own husband, your family chooses him for you, it is illegal to be married under the age of 16 but children are getting married by the age of 12.
There was a horrific story of this young girl that was in a burn unit, she’s 15 and she can no longer walk.
Her father traded her to another family, so that his son could marry the other families daughter.
This young 15 yr old girl (back then at the age of 12) was beaten everyday by her husband, his mother and his sister, this went on for 2 years until she turned 14..
One day she couldn’t take it anymore, they had beaten her for hours and then tied a noose around her neck and strung her up until she couldn’t breath, they did this continuously whilst threatening her life.
When they finally stopped she decided she couldn’t take it anymore and she didn’t want to live like that anymore, she poured petrol over herself and set herself alight.
She now resides in the Afghani hospital burn unit, without use of her legs, they’re rotting away and she has them covered as to avoid the smell.
Nel then went and visited a womans prison, one girl at the age of 18 had been there since she was 15 and was imprisoned because her father had given her hand in marriage to a 60yr old man who already had a wife and children, she refused to marry him and she ran away, met another man and married him in a chance to escape her fate with her future 60yr old husband.
Her father then pressed charges against her for dishonoring there family, and she’s been in jail ever since, they haven’t even told her when she’ll be able to get out.
Women that are imprisoned that have children, their children also live in the jail with her, but are kept separate.
This woman burned herself to get away from her abusive husband.

This documentary has opened my eyes to the reality of how much freedom we have here, how much of the little things we take for granted and overdo.
The young girls that go out looking like little hookers, that’s taking your freedom for granted, yes you have the right to wear what you want but, why portray yourself like that?
Why not respect the fact that your given that freedom in the first place and use it wisely.
When women out there aren’t even allowed to show there face!
And we have teenagers walking around showing off there cooches!
It makes me think that no matter where you are, the world is slowly going to hell, and given the chance, humanity can’t be trusted to make the right decisions.
We’re controlled by media and religion.
No one thinks for themselves, everyone is following someone else, those who act like individuals are following someone they’ve seen acting like an individual and so forth.
No one is genuine.
We can’t even be trusted to have free will without exploiting it.
Then when others choose to put in place rules to control our free will, we take it to an extreme.
There’s no medium, on this Earth.

I think that people choose to believe they have some control over their lives, because if they were to accept the truth.
There would be no reason to live.

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Posted by on June 26, 2012 in Journal


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Ventors & Fixers

Alright so apologies once again for not posting in.. lets say a fair amount of time..
This post is basically about men and women..
And how they go about problem solving..
Okay so Women, women are ventors..
When we have a problem, we vent and then we feel better…
Men, men are fixers…
Men hear a problem and they like to fix it..
It’s just what they do..
But there in lies your problem..
Women like to vent, but we don’t like men to fix our problems..
We just want to get it off our chest, we don’t want your problem solving abilities..
Why must you try and fix everything? Why can’t you just listen and then hug..
But if men don’t come up with a solution they feel worthless, un-men-like
Then they don’t understand when we’re not grateful for there wonderful solution, to magically fix all our problems..
it’s a difficult world, and in turn I leave you with this advice..
Women, vent to your friends and family but DO NOT under any circumstances, TAKE THERE ADVICE! But that way, you get it off your chest and avoid confrontation with your man,
Men, If a woman does happen to vent to you, listen, empathise and hug/kiss.
There will be no more venting and you’ll avoid an unnecessary argument.

Your welcome..


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Posted by on June 20, 2012 in Journal


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Do women have no self respect these days?
I understand that they crave attention and that almost everybody dresses like a whore and posts it all over the internet, but does it constantly need to be shoved in my face?
Not only do I begin to question myself and think, do men really want that?
And if they didn’t would these images and advertising really be that popular but it almost sickens me that no one has respect for themselves..
Are you ever going to get older and have children?
Do anything with your life that’s remotely significant? because if so.. your fucked now..
Nothing good is coming your way, not only that but I honestly wouldn’t enjoy knowing my boyfriend had showed himself to the world, it takes the excitement out of it..
It’s like getting a present, that’s already been unwrapped..
And everyone you know has already seen it and they’re not impressed..
No one is jealous of what you have, because who cares?
They can mentally have that whenever they want..
I’m probably just being overly up tight, but it seems like doesn’t matter what you do now, pornography is unavoidable..
What a wonderful age to live in..


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Posted by on June 2, 2012 in Journal


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Nerds, Geeks And All The Rest!

So I was thinking about it today..
When a woman/girl lets say “female”
When a female plays online games they are supposedly 1 of 3 things..
Number 1.
A mega fat bitch that literally does nothing but play games all day and eat.
Number 2.
A huge SKANK!
She only plays online to get attention from men.
Number 3.
A guy pretending to be a chick.

Right, so according to men I’m one of these 3 things.
Well, I’m not a dude.
So there goes number 3.
I’m not a skank.
So there’s number 2 gone.
And I think I’m in a medium weight class because I weigh just about 60kg.
So I don’t think that fits into the category of number 1.

Believe it or not, there are actually female-female gamers out there!
I know right!
It sounds crazy! But trust me.. I know a few myself..
Men think that people like me, don’t exist.
Well, I can assure you that we do.
I’m a female, I have a vagina like most females and I like to game.
Big deal?
I think not..
Women think that to be a “real” woman you have to like pink, and butterflies and bullshit..
I like blue and I like dogs and I like Star Wars..
Get over it..
So what if I’m not a “girly girl”
That doesn’t make me any less of a woman..
I’m a NERD! I like gadgets and documentaries and learning new things.

I’m also a big GEEK!
I like Gaming, Xbox, Pokemon, Anime, YouTube cartoons and Magic.

I like everything from StarWars to the Avengers.
Screw all of those who think that’s lame.
Because you don’t know cool.



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Posted by on April 5, 2012 in Journal


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Wedding Announcements?

So I have a question..
What’s with people and announcing their weddings like it’s the next sliced bread?
Expensive Invitations and Newspaper announcements..
Text messages, Phone calls..
Emails even..
I don’t understand it all, I do understand marriage.. The commitment to each other..
Yada yada yada etc..
But I don’t get all the fuss?
Half of your family doesn’t even care if you get married, what makes you think anyone else does? Yes, Good for you, I’m positive more than half of marriages fail now days..
You are just another statistic..
Whether it works or not.
Yes, i can be very cynical but that’s just my way..
I found this..

Why? WHY? Is this necessary..
No one cares who your parents are..
I have a terrible thought that the only reason people do this is for all those people that the couple don’t talk to anymore, old friends, ex lovers etc
To justify themselves..
Yes! I made it! I’m part of a couple, family, marriage thing now!
You should be jealous that my life worked out so much better than yours..
I really… Just… Do not understand it at all..
Why not just say, hey I’m getting married, I’ll let you know closer to the date.
Oh, and don’t invite EVERYONE IN THE ENTIRE WORLD!
Invite your family and friends, and don’t be offended if they don’t want to come..
They probably don’t want to buy you a crappy wedding gift that’s going to be chucked under the sink for that rare occasion someone asks you if you have a rice washer and you can reply “Yes! I got this at our wedding, you can borrow it”

Ehh, It’s all very..

Anyway, those are my thoughts..
And I’ve forgotten my question.. or if I even asked a question..
Short term memory *laughs*
Live with it..



Posted by on April 2, 2012 in Journal


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